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08.20.2005 :: A letter from Eric
A couple of months ago a friend at work's daughter, Dipti, was diagnosed with breast cancer. Thank God it was caught early and the prognosis is good but in the meantime, treatments are hell. Especially as a busy mother of a 2 year old. About a month ago, her 2 year old son, Brody was diagnosed with ALL. Leukemia.
Mother and Son. Can you imagine?
Take a minute to read this letter by Eric, husband and father. And help if you can. If not, perhaps a prayer or candle lighting would be appreciated!

Brody, a little while before being diagnosed with leukemia. See an updated picture of him at the pledge page.
Last week I sent out an email to update everyone on Dipti and Brody's progress, I would never have imagined the number of phone calls and emails that one message could bring about. Dipti, Brody and I would like to thank you all for your support and encouragement, it means more than you know. Many of you responded by volunteering to help in any way possible...... well, I would like to take you up on your offer.
One of the most difficult parts of this experience has been coming to terms with the complete lack of control. As a husband and father it is debilitating to realize that I cannot play a more direct role in curing my wife and son. I am grateful for the team of doctors and nurses we are working with, they are incredibly talented professionals who truly care for Dipti and Brody. Still, it's hard to stand back and entrust their care and future health to others. Dipti confided in me that she feels the same way when she thinks about Brody and the road he has ahead of him. We decided we needed to do something to take back control. To empower ourselves, our families and our friends. To feel that we are doing something more significant to battle this disease.
A few weeks ago we had the opportunity to meet many other little boys and girls fighting cancer during the time we spent with Brody at Children's Hospital. I can't put into words the range of emotions you experience walking the halls of that facility. Many of the kids you see are fighting every single day just to see the next. Regardless, there is no absence of laughter and happiness. These children are inspirational, they find the joy in every little moment. And while they don't know it - it's their ability to smile through the adversity that is helping their parents, friends and families to stay strong for them.
We would like to help these kids and their families in the fight against leukemia and other blood-related cancers. My friend Scott and I have made the commitment to build a team for the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society's Light The Night Walk, here in Seattle. Light The Night is a three mile walk around Green Lake to celebrate and commemorate the lives of those touched by cancer. The walk will raise money to fund research to find a cure, as well as to improve the quality of life of those patients and families who are currently fighting the disease.
It's a very worth-while cause, The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society is the world's largest voluntary health organization dedicated to funding blood cancer research, education and patient services. Right now there are more than 670,000 people in the US alone who are fighting blood cancers like leukemia, lymphoma and myeloma. And while leukemia is the leading cause of disease-related death in children under 15 years of age, blood cancers strike people of all ages. Every five minutes someone in this country is diagnosed with blood cancer, every nine minutes someone dies.
You can help. We've created Team Brody and set a very aggressive goal of raising $10,000 for the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society. If we are going to meet this objective we will need the support of each and every one of you. There are two ways to contribute:
1. Make a donation online -
It's easy, it's fast, it's what all the cool kids are doing.
Paste the following into your web browser:
http://www.active.com/donate/ltnWA-AK/ltnCox14
and click the red DONATE! button.
The walk is held on September 17th, so please don't wait to make a donation.
2. Join Team Brody and walk Green Lake with us -
For those of you here in Seattle, or anyone willing to make the trip, please join the team and walk with us!
Here are the details:
When: Saturday, September 17, 2005 at 7pm
Where: Green Lake, Seattle (click here for directions - http://www.lightthenight.org/site/c.itJZJ7MOIwE/b.838605/k.401/Directions.htm )
Who: Anyone who would like to join us in the fight against cancer.
How: Contact me or Scott (seliska@comcast.net) by Friday, August 26 to join the team. We will provide you with a walker collection envelope and other materials to help you raise money for the team.
Why: Aside from the fact that you will be helping the families of those impacted by this disease you will also be getting an exclusive, limited edition Team Brody t-shirt to wear for the walk. Sure to make you more popular and 3 inches taller, word on the street is the Team Brody t-shirt is the new black, so get one while you can.
Aside from contributing to the team I would also like to ask you to consider passing this email along to anyone else you think would be willing to make a donation to Team Brody. Reaching our goal of raising $10,000 for The Leukemia and Lymphoma Society will be a significant accomplishment in such a short time. It will be a small victory that we can all share in....and if there's one thing we've learned through all of this, it's the small victories that count.
With greatest thanks -
Eric
P.S. - I've attached a photo of Brody, taken a little while before his diagnosis...to help put a name to a face for those who haven't met him yet.
Posted by Sandy on 08.20.2005 AT 02:58 PM
Comments
Oh, that is just too unfair. How horrible to have to watch not one, but two family members going through cancer. And Dipti, fighing her own fight and having to watch her son fight his? I just made a donation, too and sent a few prayers along with it.
Posted by: Deb on 08.21.2005 AT 06:00 PM
My mom is a 16 year cancer survivor (non-hodgkins) and I'm a firm believer that prayer works. I'll add them to my prayer list. Thanks for the reminder that life is a very precious gift, one that shouldn't be taken for granted.
Tanya
Posted by: Tanya on 08.21.2005 AT 12:10 PM
After wiping the tears from my eyes, I raced over to the pledge page to help out. Please send my thoughts and prayers to the family. Life is not fair. I really hope this story has a positive outcome.
Posted by: Rachel on 08.21.2005 AT 02:14 AM
Oh, how unfair life is sometimes. That little face. .... ..... *trails off....*
Posted by: Norma on 08.20.2005 AT 09:09 PM
We will say many, many prayers and light many candles at mass! DH is in remission from Hodgkins Lymphoma, and that was *hard* to deal with - I cannot imagine the pain of both spouse *and* child dealing with such horrible illnesses at the same time.
Posted by: Donna on 08.20.2005 AT 07:46 PM
Sandy, thank you for bringing attention to this--my prayers go out to Dipti, Brody and their family.
xxooo
Posted by: Kim on 08.20.2005 AT 06:38 PM
Thanks Sandy for putting Eric's letter on your blog. My family and I are planning to make the trip over to Seattle (we live across the water) and walk to support Brody and his family. Gonna go write to Scott now ...
Posted by: Nannette on 08.20.2005 AT 06:20 PM
i know too well, how difficult those cancer treatments can be. I know also, how hard it is to have small children at the same time. but i can not imagine having to deal with both myself and a child. even though i can't help monetarily, i shall be keeping the family in my prayerrs.
Posted by: marti on 08.23.2005 AT 12:01 PM