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12.30.2005 :: Welcome to Christmas, Part Deux
I have heard from so many women that are in the same funk that I am. Here's a comment from Laura, in case you missed it:
Since everyone seems to be in the same boat, maybe we could call this Post Traumatic Christmas syndrome and crack open that New Year's champaigne a bit early
PTCS. I have it. Maybe you do too. Perhaps we should be making promises that our wonderful husbands and significant others will be pitching in a bit more next year. Or maybe ordering out is the answer. I'm not sure. I do know that YOU have helped me. That and sitting near comatose on my couch watching tv with absolutly no knitting or other distraction going on, including frivolous conversation.
But yesterday marked the end of my doldrums. For a couple of reasons. The first being that I got up and got dressed. In clothes. Not sweatpants. I believe this has a lot to do with healing. Makes a person feel like they are part of the real world, like it or not. After getting dressed, I got in the car and drove to Saugus, dropping Bethany off at hockey practice. This was a good sign too. Me. Out IN the world. So, what's a hockey mom to do? Shop at Target. Well, they had lots of sales. And that was good.
Then I came home and had a bit of a setback. You see, I read about SOME people knitting 50 items last year, or some such nonsense. There is only 52 weeks in my year. Holy NORma! I am a slacker extraordinairre! And then SOME others have knit 10 pairs of socks in like 3 days or some such drivel.
Okay, I then accepted that I am a knitting slacker. What of it? Does it make me a bad person? ~Please do not have the Sandy is an evil person debate linger on in the comments for too long. I have feelings too, you know!~
:)
Once I got over the great feelings of inadequacy, I went with a friend to the new IKEA. It is an hour's drive, without traffic, which is as rare as a spotted elephant. A long ride, let's just say. But we were game. Driving up to the store, the mammoth building looming over head is an experience. Shopping there was extremely pleasant if not a bit overwhelming, but frankly where else can you start your shopping with a plate of swedish meatballs? Really? Where else? No where, that's where.
And I bought, dear blog reader. I shopped. I bought woven rugs, new dishtowels, hanging stars, a roller blade lamp for Bethany's room, various lingonberry preserves along with wasa crisps. See? How could I stay in a slump with so much to do?
My favorite and most impulsive buy was this:
A cute bread basket made of tin. It is just the right size (not too big) and cute as a button. How could I resist?
After coming home, reveling in my newly discovered happy self, I then read Marcia's post. Well, the I read the first part of her post. I promised her I would go back and read the rest today. And I will. Stop nagging. I sat at my computer with chills and goosebumps, sort of reliving the instant of Bethany's car accident and the realization of what is really important in life. And it's not a dirty dish free sink or clean floor, let me tell you.
So, a happy sequence of events, culminating in a Marcia kick in the pants brought me to my senses. And I thought I'd share the process with you. Feel free to use this method as your own personal therapy, if needed.
And there's some knitting too, but this has gone on long enough, hasn't it? Really?
Posted by Sandy on 12.30.2005 AT 08:20 AM
Comments
No PTCS for me! How do I do it? I still have presents to finish...
Posted by: Dava on 12.31.2005 AT 05:06 PM
Getting dressed and shopping?? But I still want to be in my PJ's hiding in a corner silently rocking back and forth huggin my knees.
Most people I know haven't been feeling quite on par lately. I'm glad you're feeling better.
Posted by: Amy Boogie on 12.31.2005 AT 01:39 PM
Sakes! I couldn't knit that much in 5 years. I'm a slow knitter and I know it, but I enjoy myself and that's what matters. Getting up and dressed helps bunches, I'll just have to remember that over these next few weeks of vacation.
Posted by: Vicki on 12.30.2005 AT 10:23 PM
Wow, I dragged myself out of a slump by shopping yesterday, too. So ... shopping as therapy. *shudder* I don't think I should pursue that.
Posted by: Colleen on 12.30.2005 AT 02:28 PM
Glad you're feeling back in the world! I totally envy your Ikea proximity...I don't have one even remotely close. Of course, that's probably a good thing in the long run.
Posted by: Imbrium on 12.30.2005 AT 12:26 PM
You - a knitting slacker?? Well, if you need someone to feel superior to, here I am! I completed only 9 objects in 2005. And one of them I promptly ripped out. Glad the shopping made you feel better.
Posted by: Chris on 12.30.2005 AT 10:04 AM
Mmmm. Meatballs.
Posted by: claudia on 12.30.2005 AT 09:51 AM
I've always thought getting dressed helps. :)
And to second Carole, if you ever need someone to help eat Swedish meatballs and rationalize Ikea purchases, let me know!
Off to read Marcia's post!
Posted by: wenders on 12.30.2005 AT 09:48 AM
I'm sorry for ruining your comeback, girlie. I think I perspectipated you in the wrong direction.
I left the house yesterday for the first time since "the day" too. We loaded up the vehicle with clothing and toys for an agency that gives the stuff away. (I prefer the giveaway over someone with means looking for a bargain, reaping the benefit of my weight gain. Hmm. That was an awkward statement.)
And yes, getting dressed helps. I was even working out in my pjs.
Posted by: marcia on 12.30.2005 AT 09:32 AM
I love IKEA and there isn't one within a day's drive from me! I have been known to fly to Seattle or San Fran to go (oh, and see my sisters...)
Posted by: Lia on 12.30.2005 AT 09:28 AM
In my defense, most of the sock knitting was done in the wee hours of the night as therapy from all the other stuff I was doing. I hear you though. Today's the ONLY day I brag. Promise. ;-)
I wish you could've seen my house yesterday, BEFORE we started spinning. It actually looked presentable. I was thinking of you as I was dumping bleach in the toilet. In the BEST WAY POSSIBLE! L, C
Posted by: Cara on 12.30.2005 AT 09:23 AM
So glad you enjoyed IKEA. Next time, call me and I'll meet you there! We can eat Swedish meatballs together.
Posted by: Carole on 12.30.2005 AT 09:13 AM
Oh, I had an IKEA therapy session this week, too! I'm really sorry I missed that bread basket. Oh well, there's always next time! We ended up spending four and a half hours there (well, we did have lunch!). I'm taking down the tree today--oddly that tends to cure the post-Christmas malaise for me.
Posted by: Jo in Boston on 12.30.2005 AT 09:08 AM
How about Ikea's cinnmon bun smell wafting throughout the entire store? I swear they pipe their venting system to achieve this. And the strategic placement of the cinnamon buns right past the checkout - can't leave the store without indulging. YUMM,
Li
Posted by: Li_B on 01.01.2006 AT 12:17 PM